Picture Book Writer

Picture Book Writer

Tuesday, July 25, 2017

A Picture Book and…Fibonacci?

I may have just broken a code.

A math sequence. The fibonacci sequence (1,1,2,3,5,8,13,21,34,55…)

In a picture book of all places!













Disclaimer: my neurologist did say my left parietal lobe could have trouble with math after surgery.  

To that I say…psshh. Lame.

Disclaimer #2: I was never very good at math.

The book is Jack, by Tomie DePaola. It's a beautifully illustrated book, seemingly not at all about math. Interesting! Let's take a look...

Jack lives with his grandfather out in the country. One day, he decides to try out city life. His grandfather is very supportive and offers Jack advice to seek help from the king. Along the way, Jack makes an assortment of friends.

So Jack (our #1 hero) sets out for the city, leaving his grandfather (1).

On the way, he meets a chick (nice pun, DePaola).

Jack + chick = 2

Then Jack meets a duck:

Jack + chick + duck = 3

Next Jack meets a goose and a dog:

Jack + chick + duck + goose + dog = 5

Then a frog, a pig, and a cow:

Jack + chick + duck + goose + dog +frog + pig + cow = 8

Next, Jack meets a cat, a sheep, a horse, and an owl:

Jack + chick + duck + goose + dog +frog + pig + cow + cat + sheep + horse + owl = 12. I know, I know. The next Fibonacci number should be 13. But what the text leaves out, the illustration makes clear: + crow. The crow joins the group for the rest of the story and we now have 13.

The other characters are quiet observers in the scenery. They include two doves on the dedication, a worm, ants, mice, spider, nuns, Jack & Jill, Humpty Dumpty, a guard, king, queen, etc.

I wonder if they make 21? 34?

Don't forget that crow!

I'll leave that for you to decide. My brain needs some rest. This is where too much time on my hands has led me. But it was worth it. Whether or not my math holds true, this story illustrates how to be inclusive...and the beautiful outcome that builds from there.

Have fun delving into this fun, beautiful book!



Monday, June 26, 2017

brain surgery!

I am alive and well after brain surgery!

I was so scared that a) I would wake up DURING surgery and freak out, b) I would not wake up AFTER surgery and freak out, c) the surgeon would poke different areas of my brain and be completely perplexed, and d) all of the above.

However, my neurosurgeon is amazing. He was able to remove most of the tumor, plus the ballooning cyst. They sent it to lab and there were a few "hot spots" on the pathology report showing slightly higher grade (not quite a 3, but more like a 2.5). I went to see my neuro-oncologist to discuss radiation and he said I can delay it for a year or two since the surgery went so well in removing those hot spots. YAY! Now I can enjoy my summer. I still need to do chemo, but it's in pill form (Temodar). Very convenient with not as many side effects as IV form.

So here is my updated To-Do list:




















And now for something completely random...

My surgeon lived for a time in Tyler, Tx, not too far from my hometown of Shreveport, La. Small world. I have no idea what he managed to do there other than go to a couple honkytonks and a Dairy Queen. Both of those sound pretty good right about now. Hey, maybe he ran into Matthew McConaughey. You never know.

My oncologist's first name is Jerome. It's one of my favorite names, because it's a ghost town in Arizona where we went one summer vacation. Look it up! It's awesome. My oncologist is pretty awesome, too.

My tourist t-shirt looked something like this:

  • London
  • Paris
  • Rome
  • Jerome
I have to write it here because my husband begged me not to bring it up at the doctor's office. I am very good at embarrassing him with trivialities. It's just too darn fun. I will most likely bring it up anyway. Once you are diagnosed with brain cancer, you just don't give a care about what people think of you as much as you once did. YOU GOTTA DO YOU. I may even try to find that t-shirt. 😂

I'll sign off for now, but remember, if you or your loved one is struggling with a health issue (or any serious issue), please know there is help and support out there. Try to find the right medication, reach out to others, start a gratitude journal, listen to music, etc. Do what you've been wanting to do for a long time. Seek joy.

It's been a roller coaster ride for me (I happen to not like those) and I am not always chipper and optimistic. But hopefully, some good will come out of hardship. In fact, it already has. I've met some wonderful people (like Dr. Tyler, Tx and Jerome) and have had more quality time with my family. Try to focus on the positive, and when you can't, just breathe. Hold on. You're not alone. 💖

Tuesday, May 16, 2017

Update on oligodendroglioma

What do you think? Is John Oliver a good new look for me? 😆😁🤣😫

Two weeks ago I had not so great MRI. Tumor has not only grown, but now there is an egg sized cyst.  This explains increase in seizure intensity. It was a shock to find this out. Thought I was doing ok. Handwriting and typing is totally fine now. Had another MRI (Happy Mother's Day!) to check motor fibers to see if surgery can be done safely. At the least, we will have the cyst drained and then aggressive treatment of 5-6 weeks daily radiation and chemo. It's not all bad, though. Best joke of the day (inspired by new hooded robe): I am Obi-mom-kinobi 😆😂👏👏


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I will continue to write and read for as long as possible! I may even start sprucing up my manuscripts for submission.




Saturday, February 4, 2017

We Need You, Strega Nona!

Oh, the politics lately…

SO MUCH TRUMP MADNESS!

I was reading Strega Nona this morning, by Tomie dePaola. When I came to this page, all I could think of was Donald Trump's hair. Covering the house, the town, the world…


Boastful Big Anthony had only wanted to show the laughing townsfolk he wasn't full of lies (ahem, alternative facts). But his foolishness nearly destroyed the village by throwing it into chaos and making the townsfolk even more livid. 

Sound familiar?

When will Strega Nona return with her three kisses?!?

Please soon. Thank you!

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Tuesday, January 24, 2017

BIOPSY RESULTS

GREAT NEWS

The brain tumor is a LOW grade (grade 2) oligodendroglioma. It responds VERY WELL to treatment, most likely a targeted combo of radiation & chemo.

Basically, it is a GENETIC MUTATION.

Which makes me a MUTANT.

Therefore…

I am an X-MAN.

YES!!!

This is one of the HAPPIEST DAYS OF MY LIFE!!!


Friday, January 20, 2017

Still On Stand By

Still waiting for biopsy results. I will know something by the 24th of January. Only 4 more days…

So while I'm on Stand By, I thought I'd share a post on parenting. Because my kids are definitely on my mind right now. 

Now that they are older, I do have a little more breathing room. The preschool years are long gone. 

TAKE LOTS OF VIDEO! 

Sure, there are new challenges, but we're no longer in Base Camp. We've moved up the trail to slightly higher ground and can look back. Take in a view. 

A VIEW! Parents, I remember those days of being right in the thorny thick of it, up close and gross. Hang in there! You will one day get your view…and maybe even learn how to breathe again. Whew!

Here is one book I remember from those days: 



A  more recent book I just can't rave enough about is by Shefali Tsabary:


It has been a HUGE HELP.  It may have a somewhat different approach than what our culture is used to, but KEEP READING! Basically, you work on yourself first and stop trying to "fix" your child. Casting the beam from your own eye to see clearly. HIGHLY RECOMMEND.


Lastly, I will leave you with a few parenting tips. I hope they help :)

  • LISTEN to your child with full attention (It's tough. I just had a delay yesterday when I was on the iPad. Keep practicing!)
  • SHARE your feelings (both good and bad) with them (When they see you open up, they see you respect yourself. They will learn by example - and maybe even open up to you)
  • TAKE IT OUTSIDE. Nature is a wonderful healing tool. Take advantage! (great for those surly teens, too)
  • Take time to REFLECT on your own childhood memories. Share those stories with your child. If it is a positive memory, maybe you could even recreate it in the present 💖


YOU ARE THE BRIDGE FROM PAST TO FUTURE